Uncomfortable with online dating
The site will then begin to monitor all your e-mail messages and kick you off the system if it doesn’t like what you’re writing.” Afterward, break off the communication.
From then on, your approach is no reply, no comment, no nothing. If you think you have a problem prospect, even if you’re anonymous, don’t feel uncomfortable reporting the situation to the site operator (usually under abuse or Webmaster).
Remember that nothing is ever completely erased on the Internet, so made-up abuse is pretty easy to expose.
And if you report inappropriately, the site will monitor your mail.
Doing so prevents you from being seen on the Who’s Online feature.When someone just won’t quit bothering you and all else fails, you have to dispense with being polite.Just as dogs get only one bite (actually, they don’t get any free bites), your discouraged suitor gets only one “apology” from you. The following line is pretty darn effective but only use it as a last resort:“You need to know that if you attempt to contact me again, I’ll report your activities as an abuse to the dating site.The appropriate actions to take include Occasionally, you’ll run into people who just won’t stop contacting you even after you’ve rejected them.Most often, people don’t let go because they’ve developed fantasies from your photo and essay.